What do they really want?

After 4 weeks of war between Hezbollah and Israel the question is unavoidable.
what do they want? I mean both sides.. What do they really want?
Let's start with Israel...
Israel is there to stay .. This country and its people is not going anywhere. Let's not joke about this .. There are millions of them .. They are supported by many great powers on earth and can do what they want by imposing their will on neighbor's politically and by force if necessary... They can defend themselves and that's proven and they can cause big harm to any neighbour country as we sow in Lebanon...
Having said that let's move to the other side.
Hezbollah.. Believers .. Muslims .. They are taught that Israel are descendent of apes and pigs.. So they don't deserve country but barn.. And with the help of Allah they are able to achieve that. So kick them out of the land and return it to whom it belong, brothers in Islam. The view is that narrow..
Allah seems to be away on vacation.. Seems like he defer the job to an assistance who doesn't like Muslims or likes Joes more or whatever.. That has been the case for long long time..
Arabs and Muslims weren't able to record a victory over Israel(despite the fact that they declare many of them to increase the number of holidays) they loose every conflict . Yet they try over and over to be heroes .. They die in grater numbers then Israelis and they cause the death of many innocent people who wants to live in peace.. At the end the rest of them will declare victory .. How silly is that..
I'd say . Violence should be avoided in any price.. Specially when you know that the other side are much stronger than you.. But what to say to people who want to die and go to heaven ?
I'd say.. Just kill them.
here remains the question.. how doing that without harming innocent children and others.. there is no way.. collateral damage is a must.. and both sides are resposible .. it is not that one side is resposible for the death of innocents on the other side only.. let's face it .. they had nothing to do with both sides.. can we say that lebanese children are killed only because of Israel ??