Liar !! Who are you ?

You are not what you think, feel, show or say. ... or believe.. 

You are not what other people think, feel or say about you.

You are not what you have. 

You are not what you do.. 

That's not the whole story.

In general. you are much worse person than what you show to others.  much worse and you might know that.

You are liar. knowingly or unknowingly . you lie, even to your own self, even when you are most honest, that's because you don't know better and you think you do.

Feelings lie, Opinions lie .. what you say and feel, here and now , is a part of what you are HERE AND NOW. 

Define the words (Idiot, asshole, jerk etc.. ).. try not to be one by your own definition.. there is no (but)..

If you get used to be forgiven for your mistakes from people who love you and can do nothing against it, you will repeat them. you will be nonetheless spoiled idiot. there is no (but) 2nd time.

If you justify a mistakes of yours as initial misunderstanding .. make sure that there is no next misunderstanding. another (but) is not acceptable..

When you justify a wrong doing to a dear trusted person by : Ohh ..you don't know me, you don't know my life etc.. don't stop there .. explain what you mean .. otherwise .. Either he is a person you don't give a shit about, or you are very ashamed of yourself and sure that you are going to be looked down at.

You are a collection of thoughts, words and actions through time , good and bad, pleasant and shameful, useful and harmful. try to define yourself this way.  Wage your actions and words by your own definitions of bad and good , right and wrong.. 

Recall your old, and think of the upcoming, thoughts and actions as if you were somebody else looking at what you say and do.. It is hard but possible to be honest . Takes some training. 

That's how you know who you are. 

You will be surprised to know that you are much worse, by your own definition, than the person you want to be.